Chuppah Size

graciously offered money instead of a gift we have of course refused. If soemone ask ourselves if we want money can not, we will answer "Yes, it would be great, and how much will give you" the way I see it, if someone wants to give money that can be discreetly on a map. My big question is: we have a decent outdoor wedding under a chuppah size, very relaxed, casual. we invite our extended families (which adds only over 100 (where the destination wedding is out), and our closest friends and colleagues. we have a lobby, immediately after the AAT weddign nice rest. and then two days later we're going on holiday 14 days. none of us had spent a vacation in over six years because of work and children. We are so ready to go a little lonely, relax and not have to follow any program. taqke holiday but we understand they still grown children his grandchildren, his 11 year old twins ol 9 years, 6 years & 5 yr old

? I'm not sure I see an issue here.

I would not ask for money for the honeymoon, but if someone offers you cash, you can accept graciously, saying, thank you.

Toooooo well, taking money and gifts graciously people are giving because they want to. It is impolite to refuse, be sure to send thank you cards. Good luck with your marriage 7.

I heard about this, but have no idea how. I suggest you simply let people give you cash, and use that you get for your expenses. I would not ask people to give to your honeymoon. If someone asks what they can give you, tell them that you have everything you need. Chances are, they will give you money anyway.

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding, I wish you the best.

Dang, some posters are just rude. Just because it's his second marriage and his third does not make them bad people. Perhaps their previous spouses died or was an aggressor - Have you ever thought? I would not judge someone else for the number of marriages they have been until you walk a mile in his shoes.

I have been to many, many weddings and have been invited to one wedding where the couple registered for their honeymoon. If you want to contribute to their honeymoon, you can pay for dinner, a special tour, a massage for two - just about any product or service you could get to the station, they stay.

Frankly, I thought it was a bit rude and a breach of etiquette. I do not mind buying something from a list of marriage because I want it to be something of lasting value that the couple will enjoy. When I saw the register of the honeymoon I thought, "Uh-oh. This couple is going on a honeymoon they could not afford and now want guests to get them out of mess. " I declined the invitation to the wedding and sent a card (without a monetary donation).

Confused about what the issue is, but you can always tell the invitation you do not want gifts or donations to a charity can be made in lieu of gifts. I am not sure of the wording, but I'm sure you can find online.

I do not know how you set up a honeymoon registry, but I saw some people do here. Some posters say its rude, but in your case, all your guests that you have everything you need for your home (and probably even more). What seems hard for me to pay for specific parts, like a dinner or a massage. I think fair contribution to the honeymoon is generally more acceptable. The thing is that many people do give money these days. So you can just say "we havent recorded nowhere" and people will probably give you money.

Do not do it - it's so cheesy. The market makes people think that "a.