My Daughter's Wedding Album

My daughter is getting married this June and has had problems with his future-be million from the first day. My daughter was with her boyfriend for 2 ½ years and still makes millet old photo albums over the family moments of his former ex-girlfriends.

biological father of my daughter (we were married) when he was sent to prison where she was 4 years old and has never helped financially or had anything to do with her or her sister in 27 years - until recently. When I married my new "new" husband adopted two daughters. I found it was not only intellectually but also insulting me, my daughter and divorced. It has helped some financial obligation, but his actions left many mental health problems, she finally overcome.

I eventually remarried to a wonderful man (Jim) who has treated my two daughters as his own. We have been married for 12 years, but passed quickly (from cancer) 5 years ago. Because of the actions of the two "fathers" of my daughter wants her walk down the aisle - which I think is an honor.

bridesmaids dress is fuchsia and I found a pretty blue dress navy for me to blend in because she wants me to sit at the head table with the rest of the game. My daughter showed her parents a picture and the color of my dress two months ago. My daughter discovered yesterday evening that his MIL bought a navy blue dress to wear - the same color of my dress! Can I return my dress, but now I'm looking for a new one. Do you think it would be appropriate to wear a red color to blend in fuchsia?

All marriages we see (since the death of Jim), we must leave before the daughter / father dance or we end up being a mess of tears crying. It brings back too many memories of Jim not being here with us. Her MIL knows she will not the daughter / father dance, but always insists on a Mother / Groom dance at the reception. This will put a cloud pressing his marriage.

Her boyfriend understands (he was a witness of our actions to a marriage), but does not want to upset her mother for not dancing. What to do??

Keep your dress navy as it will look great, and if she wears the same color, it will look like you planned. As for the dance of the Mother spouses, and smiling through it, it's 4 minutes. Concentrate on what a husband of your daughter very much and not thinking about anything else.

You can do it, stiff upper lip and all that.